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A Montessori Introduction to the Alphabet

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Note: This is an updated version of my blog post from last year, after learning through teaching my daughter!

In Montessori education, learning to read and write is a gradual, natural, and tangible process that begins unconsciously. Already D is learning how to write. By using her pincer grasp to transfer objects and hold knobbed cylinders, she’s learning how to hold a pencil. By moving her paintbrush in zigzags and circles on the page, she’s learning the fluid movements of cursive. By hearing the beginning sounds of words, she’s learning how sounds combine to make words. There is no rush to this process; all children will learn to write and read in their own time.

“What the hand does the mind remembers.” - Maria Montessori

A common theme you will see in Montessori education is starting with the concrete and moving to the abstract. The more children can work with their hands, the better they will grasp the concept in their mind. (Same goes for adults!) The more we use multiple senses (sight, touch, sound), the more neural connections are made in the brain. This is especially true when it comes to literacy. For example, a Montessori child learning the letter “m” will hear the sound of the letter, then the feel and flow of the sandpaper “m”, and the look of “m” on paper, all at the same time. This makes learning letters not only more memorable and tangible, but also more fun.

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Here are a few elements that make the Montessori introduction to the alphabet a bit different:

Phonetics - Rather than read the letter (e.g. B as “bee”), the focus is on the sound each letter makes (e.g. “buh”. (It’s important not to draw out the “uh” part but rather make it a short “buh” sound.) Children learn to sound each letter out, helping them to later combine sounds to make words. It’s much more intuitive and helpful for a child to spell “cat” when they know the letter sounds than the letter names. “Cat” vs. “See-ay-tee”! We focus on the

Writing > Reading - It may seem counterintuitive, but Montessori teaches writing before reading. Children are more easily able to put letters (sounds) together to make a word than they are able to connect the letters in words on paper or in a book. By learning the sounds/phonetics of each letter, they can begin to create words themselves. You will often see primary-age children building words with the moveable alphabet, even before they can physically write words. Creating words in this concrete way helps the mind truly understand the meaning of each letter and word, before writing with pencil and paper, and often before reading.

Cursive - Not every Montessori school teaches cursive, but this is the traditional method. Though it may seem outdated, there are real benefits to learning cursive before print. With cursive writing, letters physically connect to form words, and words are spaced in sentences. Cursive also involves fluid movements which are easier and more natural for small children (look at their drawings or paintings!). Print is typically easier to pick up after first learning cursive.

Putting this into Action

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Pre-Writing: When I first wrote this blog post last year, I introduced the letter with the sound. Though she showed initial interest, that was replaced with confusion about the letters. So now, I’ve removed the letter symbols for the time being, while instead finding small ways to familiarize her with letter sounds and writing skills. The first way I can help prepare D for writing is by providing materials and activities that allow for fluid movement and the pincer grasp. Though she’s had plenty of practice with fluid movements in the form of art, I really love this prewriting board by Treasures from Jennifer. This board offers beautiful patterns to trace, with a finger, small wooden stick, or beads, that pave the way for future cursive writing. On the reverse side are shapes! Whether or not you have this board, any kind of tracing is great pracice for later writing.

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Learning Phonemes: I’ve learned through experience that it is very important to first introduce the letter sound without the letter symbol at all. This can happen naturally as I label objects, e.g. “buh-ball!” in our play and exploration. Simply labeling objects and the sound they start with can be a great introduction to learning letter sounds. When she began to recognize a few letter sounds as we talked about them, we began to play simple sound games with familiar objects. Her favorites are “i-spy” and “mystery bag”. For I-spy, I set out 3 or 4 objects and say for example “I spy an object that starts with the sound “cuh” and she finds the cat. This helps familiarize her with the actual meaning of letter sounds before introducing the abstract letters themselves. Another challenge is “i-spy” around the house or outside, where she has to find an object not in front of her, e.g. “I spy something that starts with “ff” and she finds a flower.

A little more advanced than I spy is the stereognostic or mystery bag, where I hide the familiar objects in a bag and say “Can you find the hidden object that starts with “Puh?” and she pulls out a pumpkin for example. I love this one because she has to hold the image of the object in her mind as she feels around with her hands. It’s important not to over-correct during these games, but rather take note of what they DO know, adjust expectations, and acknoweldge what they are trying to show you. “Oh you found the a-apple!”

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Sandpaper Letters: The most traditional Montessori approach to introduce the alphabet itself is through sandpaper letters, which allow a child to trace the letter, feeling its pattern and hearing or making the sound. There are different opinions about which letters to start with but often it’s m, s, t, and a. These are all used frequently and can easily form words when combined together. Letters are introduce in lowercase first, as that is seen much more frequently than uppercase. When I introduce a new letter, I use the three period lesson to do so.

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Sound Tray: Since letters are pretty abstract, a fun way to make them more concrete is through a sound basket or tray. I like “S” as it’s a familiar and frequently used letter. When D is ready, I can put the “s” sandpaper letter in a tray with several objects that start with that sound: a sailboat, school bus, spider, and strawberry. When I show her this work, I simply lay the letter out, and slowly trace it with my index and middle finger as I make the sound “ss”. Then I label each of the objects, ensuring I make a clear “s” sound at the beginning of each word. She can then make the connection between the look, the sound, and the feel of the letter, as well as how it sound with real life objects. I use familiar objects (otherwise it’s important to first use the three-period lesson to introduce each object) and then play games such as “I spy” with each object to familiarize her with the objects and sounds. This activity helps her to group these objects in her mind, as things that begin with the same sound.

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Sound Matching: Once she seems to have an understanding of a set of letters, I will create a matching activity with two letters and sets of objects. She can then sort each object depending on the sound it starts with. So if I had a basket with the letter “s” and “a”, she could figure out which letter “spider” goes with and which “airplane” goes with. Another fun variation once your child knows a few sounds is to play the “I Spy” game where you ask “I spy something that starts with “a” (showing them the letter) and they have to pick something from the basket (or around the house) that starts with that sound.


There is no one perfect age to introduce these activities, but in my experience, phonemes can be introduced around 2.5 and actual introduction of the sandpaper letters after age three. Every child is different, so follow yours and their own interests and abilities. :)

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Our Favorite Winter Books

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Somehow another winter is upon us, which means lots of cozy afternoons reading books, drinking tea, and hoping for snow days! At the very least we can gear up for our trip up to the Methow Valley this winter, where we are guaranteed skiing and sledding galore. Whatever and wherever your winter is, I know you and your baby or toddler will love these stories to get in the winter spirit.

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Over and Under - My sister gifted us this one last year, and it is still my favorite this year. Toddlers and children of all ages will enjoy discovering the secret animal world under the snow. As a cross-country skier, I especially love the dual story of the father-daughter on a ski adventure while the animals hibernate and explore below.

Snow Globe Wishes - This is a new hardcover that both D and I were excited to discover. It tells a sweet story of a family snuggling in and enjoying time together inside during a snow stormy night. It celebrates togetherness and peace, and the beauty of a snowy night.

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The Snowy Day - Everyone probably knows this classic story, but it will always remain on our list. It is just a wonderful story of Peter’s snow day in the city.

Red Sled - D’s favorite books are often the ones with little to no words at all. They have slowly become mine too. This is a simple story of a bear who discovers a sled outside a cabin, and goes for a ride with his animal friends at night. Rather than words, this story is told through the sound effects: “scrinch scrunch”, “rooooeoeee” and "gadung gadung” are our favorites. Yesterday, I watched as she sat on the couch and read this one aloud to herself, just making the sound effects on each page.

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Winter Dance - This is a wonderful one to pair with Over and Under because it tells the story of the animals living above the snow, and their preparation for the winter season. Fox isn’t sure what to do in the wintertime, but after watching all of the animals, he finally meets another fox, and finds his role too.

Winter Babies - Perfect for the littlest ones, this seasonal story features sweet faces and simple phrases, and winter delights. Though a bit young for D, she has it memorized and enjoys reading it to us now!

Winter is Here - Last but not least, this board book is a toddler and adult favorite, with beautiful illustrations and descriptive language. There are lovely details on each page, describing the sights, sounds, and feels of a snowy winter. Short enough for babies but engaging enough for toddlers.

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Exposing Toddlers to a Second Language

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It may seem crazy to introduce a second language to our 2-year-old when she is still picking up English and we aren’t a bilingual home. However, research suggests otherwise. Young children can effortlessly pick up more than one language, without even knowing they are doing it. In contrast, we as adults, or even older children, have to work really hard at it. A younger child will also have an easier time recognizing and pronouncing different speech sounds and accents of other languages.

There are many advantages to learning more than one language in the early years, from higher executive functioning and problem-solving to developing an awareness and understanding of cultures different than one’s own. Obviously the ease at which toddlers pick up a second language, and the benefits they experience from it, are more pronounced in a bilingual home. However, even young children with a smaller exposure to a second language can reap some of these benefits.

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I started learning Spanish in middle school and continued through college, when I studied abroad in Spain. Since then, I’ve hardly used it, which means I’ve lost a lot of it. But it is amazing how much of it comes back now that I’m introducing Spanish language to D. We have found various activities to engage in together to make learning Spanish fun for both of us! While I know I’ll never be fluent, and D might not be either, it still feels worthwhile, for the aforementioned reasons. :)

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Books & Music

One of the simplest ways to introduce another language is through music. We have been listening to some Spanish songs on her Jooki, such as those by one of our favorite kid artists, Little Parade. We’ve also been singing “Cabeza, Hombros, Rodillas, y Deditos” (Head Shoulders Knees and Toes) and “Las Ruedas del Autobus” (Wheels on the Bus) together. It’s so fun to see her start referring to her toes as both toes and deditos these days. I’ve also been finding some great English-Spanish books at the library. Her favorite right now is “Me Gusta Cuando” (see above).

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Habbi Habbi

This tool is especially helpful for adults, like me, who aren’t fluent and don’t know how to pronounce every word correctly. The Habbi Habbi books are a super innovative and fun way for toddlers to engage in learning a new language from a native speaker. Each inch of each book is tappable via the wand, and speaks in both English and Spanish (or Chinese in the other version). There are four titles out now, and D’s favorite by far is the Book of Emotions. I’m really excited for the ones coming out soon called “I am Kind” and the “Book of Chores”. The voice of each of the books is fluent, clear, and easy to listen to. I love that the phrases and pictures in the books are all positive, inclusive, and contemporary. It’s been a great way for D and I to engage in learning Spanish together recently.

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Puzzles & Toys

Lastly, we have also just been discussing Spanish in the context of play. When we do color sorting, I might mention “Rojo” in addition to “Red” so she hears both languages. Some toys make this even easier with the Spanish word printed on, such as these wooden animal puzzles. D has begun referring to this puzzle solely as the “Girafa”. She is also enjoying the flash cards pictured above, where the English is on one side, and Spanish on the other. She carries it around with her and flips through the cards. Again, all of it is just familiarizing her with the second language - no expectations necessary!

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Our Favorite Bedtime Books

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After my post on our favorite Montessori-friendly books for toddlers, I’ve received requests to share our favorite bedtime stories as well. Although we read throughout the day, bedtime is my favorite, snuggliest time to read together. If I’m doing bedtime with both kids, I read to them together; otherwise, I’ll read to each before their kiss goodnight. It’s been a part of our bedtime ritual since birth for both, and I don’t like to think about the day that changes. There is something so sweet about bedtime books and the words or lullabies that begin to drift your little (and maybe you too!) on off to sleep. Each of these nine books are durable board books that have treated us well the past 2.3 years! :)

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Sweet Dreams Lullaby - This has always been my favorite and hardly a night goes by it’s not in our rotation. I love the colorful imagery and the words flow poetically. It’s such a sweet bedtime lullaby. Although it’s on the longer side, D has always enjoyed this one all the way through, and now S too.

Time for Bed - This is another sweet rhyming lullaby, with lots of repetition which babies and toddlers love. Each page is a wish goodnight for a different little animal. I also love the tiny size of this board book - perfect for a baby!

Beditme - This is a great book as you establish a bedtime routine. It is a simple step by step story of how one family prepares for sleep. My favorite part is how it talks about the importance and joy of sleep and how it helps your little one grow and learn!

Bedtime

Bedtime

A Celebration of the Seasons - I stumbled upon this one at the bookstore and it’s become one of D’s favorites. It is full of poems which my husband and I have turned into songs as per D’s request. As the title suggests, each one is related to the four seasons, so sometimes we just read the ones for the appropriate time of year.

If Animals Kissed Goodnight - This is on the longer side for a board book but it’s so sweet! I love how it helps you imagine how each animal and their baby would kiss goodnight while teaching a bit about animals too. The best part is the sloth and her baby who just keep kissing soooooo slow. ;)

Sleepy Bee - This is the shortest and simplest of the books, but it was just always D’s favorite as a baby! We got it at the Sleepy Bee Cafe in Cincinnati visiting my husband’s family so it brings us fond memories as well. A short bedtime story of a bumbebee’s day.

Sweet Dreams Lullaby

Sweet Dreams Lullaby

Counting Kisses - This always bring a smile to both of my kids’ faces when we read it at night. And I love getting to kiss both my babies on repeat as I read this! A simple story of 1 to 10 kisses, from head to toe.

Where do I Sleep? - I already mentioned this one in my other Montessori books list, but I had to include it here, as it’s a longtime favorite bedtime story. I love the realistic, gorgeous illustrations, particularly because it features wild animals of the Pacific Northwest!

On the Night you were Born - We were gifted this book when D was born, and now I gift it to other new babies. It’s a beautiful story of the uniqueness of each child, and just how special they are to us, and to the world. The words are soothing and comforting for babies and toddlers alike.

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And with that, goodnight and sleep tight!

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The Montessori Approach to Introducing New Vocabulary

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A trademark of Montessori education is the three-period lesson. It is a method all Montessori primary teachers use to introduce new vocabulary and concepts to a child that involves three key steps: naming, recognition, and recall (more on this below). It is often introduced in the toddler classroom as well, albeit less formally. Keep in mind that we organically introduce language with our toddlers at home or as we explore new places/things with them; this is just a more specific way to introduce new words and concepts as part of a language lesson, either at home or at school.

With toddlers, it can help to focus on concepts or topics your child is already interested in. Most recently, D (27 months) has been talking a lot about baby and mama animals. So I’ve been teaching her the names of all the baby animals, as well as the names of the female adult, if different than the male counterpart. Six months ago, I would have just introduced one of each animal in a generic form, e.g. cow and sheep, but her comprehension and language has grown so much since then.

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Whichever the category or concept you choose, It’s best to start with the the concrete version (e.g. real fruits) rather than the abstract (e.g. pictures of fruits). For many objects, such as animals, toy figurines are the closest we can get to the real thing. Start with just a few objects (up to four for young toddlers and up to eight for older) in one category. You can place these objects in a basket or on a tray on your toddler’s shelf for them to explore and either give a lesson before or after they explore. With toddlers, giving a lesson has to include some flexibility as they don’t sit still for as long as a child in a primary classroom would. You may not get through a whole lesson, and that’s okay! Use some of the tips below to make it more fun, and you may be surprised by your toddler enjoying these language “games”. If your child isn’t interested at all, just move on, and try again later or another day. And keep in mind that some categories/concepts just might not be interesting to your child - I tried, but I could never get D to sit through a lesson on tools!

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The Three Period Lesson (adapted for toddlers)

1. Naming

As you introduce a new object or concept, simply label what it is you are showing the child. Hold it and use one simple word to label it, e.g. “Lamb” if you’re introducing farm animals, or “Red” if you’re introducing colors. Set it back down and let the child explore and touch it too. *Note: While we of course want to use lots of descriptive language in our everyday interactions with our toddler, here we are isolating a single concept. The fewer words we use in the naming or labeling, the easier it will be for the toddler to make the connection between the word and the object or concept.

2. Recognition

Once you have provided a label for each object or concept, you can ask the child to find each one, one at a time. With toddlers, it can help to make this into a game. Examples of recognition questions include “Where is the calf?” “Can you put the cube in the basket?” “I spy…green.” “Can you hide the motorcycle behind your back?” There are endless ways to play recognition games, which help to get your child more familiar with each object or concept. There is no rush to the next step as you want the child to really grasp what each object is. If your child isn’t talking yet, this is the last step.

3. Recall

This step is only used for a verbal child and when you are confident the toddler knows each word already. The last thing we want to do is set a child up for failure if they don’t yet know the answer. In this final step of the three-period lesson, we ask “What is this?” as we point to each object. You can also make this more fun by asking the toddler a more creative questions such as “Which baby animal is yellow?” or hiding one under a cloth and asking “Which one is missing?”

In general, when teaching something new, we try to avoid pointing out when the child gets something wrong. If your child makes a mistake in the recognition or recall step, you could just acknowledge what they did show you "That's the ____" and remember to show them the correct label/object pairing again next time. We want our toddler to be confident in their abilities, and motivated to keep trying. Often if we are constantly correcting, we see children lose self esteem as well as interest in trying.

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You can read more about early toddler language activities such as matching object to object and object to card in this blog post. You can also read about how I introduce other types of materials to D in this blog post.

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Our Favorite Montessori-Friendly Books

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One of the aspects of parenting I was most excited about was sharing the magic and power of books with my children. Not only do I enjoy getting lost in a really good book (when I find/make the time), but I especially love reading to my babes. There are countless benefits to reading to babies and young children, including strengthening language, attention span, memory, creativity, and emotional understanding. Not to mention it is wonderful bonding time! I’ve been reading to D since day 1 (if nothing else, there’s always bedtime!) and it makes my heart happy to see her love of books already.

Although I am not strict about it, there are a couple of qualities I look for in books for my children, following a few Montessori principles.

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Realistic Nature:

Most of our books are based in reality, meaning you don’t find a lot of talking animals and princesses. The Montessori belief is that young children, especially toddlers, learn best through reality (concrete) rather than fantasy (abstract). This does NOT mean we discourage pretend play. It just means we let toddlers and young children take the lead in their own pretend play, which is typically acting out real-life scenarios such as playing house or doctor. When children begin to fully understand the difference between reality and fantasy, fairy tales and fantasy books become more appropriate. So for now, most of our books involve real-life content and ideally realistic or at least beautifully-illustrated pictures!

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Age-appropriateness

This includes both the durability, length, and content. When D was younger, we only had board books, but now she understands how to be careful with some of our larger hardcover books. I try to choose books that aren’t too text-heavy, and if they are, involve catchy rhymes or exciting illustrations that keep her attention. Sometimes her attention span for books just depends on the time of day! Lastly, I try to find books on topics that I think she will enjoy (such as babies), as well as new ideas (such as our solar system).

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10 of D’s Favorite Books

The Big Book of First Words - This is D’s favorite book right now, and honestly, mine too! It’s a little like “Where’s Waldo” but more toddler-friendly and less dizzying. ;) Each page features a different scene such a kitchen or zoo, and on the right side of the page has images of objects or animals to find within the scene. It’s a bit trickier than her other favorite, Let’s Find Momo. I think she especially loves how it’s a giant board book!

Here We Are: Notes for Living on Planet Earth - This book offers hope for all of us who love and want to help take care of our planet. It celebrates all of the beauty of Earth and the people on it. “You’re never alone on Earth.” :) There are so many fun pictures and topics within this book to talk about with a toddler.

All the World - This is such a beautifully illustrated book. It is a simple but poetic story about a family’s day from morning to night, and all the beautiful things we see and do. It also emphasizes the importance of togetherness. Everywhere Babies is done by the same illustrator and is another of our longtime favorites.

Press Here - This is D’s favorite interactive book. Although it is simply a book of dots, each page has instructions on how to make the dots create different patterns, e.g. tipping the book on its side to make them “fall down”. D loves feeling like she has had an effect on the dots’ pattern page after page.

Where Do I Sleep? - This has been a longtime bedtime favorite. For those not wanting a Pacific Northwest specific book, I Would Tuck You In is also similar and sweet. A simple but really beautifully illustrated story of where animals and their babies sleep. I love how realistic the illustrations are too!

The Wonderful Things You Will Be - I love the message this book sends; that a child can grow up to be anything they choose and there is value in it all. D loves the beautiful illustrations of children, and the pop-out page at the end! This is a wonderful gift for new parents/babies.

You Were the First - We gave this to D before S came along and it’s still one of her favorites. It tells the story of all baby’s firsts, and how the parents get to experience it all with them. It ends with “there may be a second or a third, to sleep in the basket with the yellow ribbon wound round…but you will always be our first”. It makes me tear up each time!

Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You - Speaking of tearing up, this book always gets me! It is such a beautiful story of how a parent’s love is with their child wherever they go and whatever they feel. It’s a wonderful, comforting story for bedtime. This one’s story is a bit abstract, but as I said, I’m not super strict about every book being completely based in reality.

Eating the Alphabet - This is a colorful and classic book for teaching letters. I enjoy that it emphasizes the sound letters make rather than just the letter itself. Plus, D loves her food, so this one is extra fun for her! ;) I especially like that it introduces unusual fruits and veggies.

Seek and Count - As D becomes more interested in numbers, she’s really enjoyed this lift-a-flap number book. Each page features a surprise under the flap and counts up from one to ten. It’s simple but great for toddlers who are counting to 10. She loves to recall what is hidden on each page - great for memory!

You can find more of our other favorites listed in my interview with Kelsey Paff of Where The Board Books Are!

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Introducing Language Work

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D is 16 months, and soaking up language like a sponge. She points to everything, wants a name for it, and often tries to say it back to us. We’ve used baby sign since 9 months, and that is still her primary way to communicate her needs. (In video below, she is signing “help please”). But she also has so many more words in her head than she can say out loud (and that I know the sign for), so this month has been all about activities to help her expand her receptive and expressive language.

Montessori or not, some of the best ways to expand babies and toddlers’ vocabulary are books, songs, and simply talking through your day with them. While I try not to use too many words while D is playing/concentrating on her own, I talk to her a lot throughout the day, whether it’s about what we are having for dinner, dressing after using the potty, or what we see while we’re out on a walk. She soaks it all in. There are board books for her throughout the house, and she loves to sit in her little chair and read to herself or have me read to her. Books are a favorite part of both our days. Her favorite language activity lately is her book of fingerplay songs. She opens the book and points to a song/rhyme and I do the fingerplay for it. It’s super sweet to see her start to mimic the movements on her own. Her other favorites are action songs that of course involve spinning and dancing.

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While books and stories are a very important component of language learning, Montessori also believed in starting with the concrete: “What the hand does the mind remembers”. Toddlers learn best through all their senses, especially their hands. When toddlers are first learning language, they get so much more out of holding an object than they do from a photo or picture of an object. Since D was just a baby, and still today, I’ve given her lots of real objects to touch and explore, such as fruit and vegetables, kitchen utensils, household items and containers, and animal replicas. The more realistic, the better.

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Labeling/Asking

D’s favorite items to explore now are any small replica objects (made by Toob), such as vehicles, animals, community helpers, and tools. I usually have at least one basket of objects (that fits in one category) on her shelf. To introduce this material, I start by taking one object out at a time and labeling it, for example, “delivery truck”. I repeat this with all the objects. Then I invite her to find each object to put back in the basket. If she doesn’t want to, that is fine! I also just let her explore the objects on her own, and provide labels if she asks for it. Below is an example of her exploring, and me labeling, real fruit.

Matching Object to Object

The next level up in Montessori language materials is object to object matching. Again, this involves tangible items for her to explore, but this time, pair together. When starting out, it’s easiest for toddlers to do this with identical sets of objects, rather than similar items. So I found a some inexpensive sets of animals at the local toy store to set up a “wild animal” matching activity. You can also use two sets of these Toob wild animals. When I first introduce the material, I take out one animal and label it, e.g. “elephant”. Then I find the other elephant in the basket, label it, and set it down right next to the first elephant. I repeat with the rest of the animal pairs in the basket (5-6 pairs max). Then I let her explore. Though she doesn’t line the animals up as I do yet, she has started to pick out two of the same animal from the basket, noticing the sameness. No matter how she plays with this material, she’s learning!

Object to Object Matching

Matching Object to Picture

Just this week I introduced object to picture matching, which is still quite a challenge for D, but a favorite of hers to explore and have me help with. Instead of matching the animal/fruit/vehicle to an identical object, she has to match it to a picture of that object. For toddlers, the more identical the picture is to the object the better, so I created my own laminated cards using photos I took of the objects at home. You can find pre-made language cards or photos online but they it’s harder to match the objects in size and details. In the examples below, I used the Schleich farm animals (large replicas), and Toob vehicles (small replicas). I’m sure I will be making many more sets of these in the near future!

object to picture matching

As with all labeling, when I present this, I do so slowly and with few words, so she focuses on what my hands are doing and the names of the objects. I lay out all the cards first, naming each one as I set it down. Then I pick up an object from the basket, e.g. fire engine, label it, and put the object over the matching card, covering the picture, then repeat the word. I repeat this sequence with each object. I find 4 matches to be the maximum for young toddlers. D enjoys covering up the pictures with the objects, even if she doesn’t always match perfectly! Again, it’s about the learning process rather than the product!

object to picture matching